The Genesis of Our Marriage- The Nowembabazi

Greetings Comrade.

I recommend that you first read our first writeup 

The first write up about our Love story is found here. Our Love Story

“Isaac why have you rushed for marriage? Look at how young and jobless you’re and….” A friend asked. Looking helplessly, I felt perhaps he has a point. One significant and remarkable event that still sounds loud in my ears, when I thought about writing this story, all that was in my mind was; “Shall we make it really?”

By the virtue of being a Christian, I had enough faith to understand that God is too faithful to fail me as long as I don’t hold any evil intent in whatever I am doing.

October 2018 I graduated and wedded May 2019. By then I was just volunteering and little money I used to get was just for rent and food besides our son requiring good care. My wife a qualified teacher then became a house wife.

In that course, I got a brother-in-law (Turinawe Gaspali) treasured so much because he stood with in that moment and inspired me to keep strong and be a man. We shared many ideas and finally concluded on starting a business for my wife but where was capital?? I got a small loan and then shifted to an open house thereafter we begun this small chakala business.

Few months down the road we started seeing fruits and thought about adding more capital. It was challenging because we couldn’t raise enough money required in the mobile money business we had started with hired lines. In all this, we didn’t give up prayer was and is key in our everyday life.

After a while, I saw our curve move up income increased and before I knew it, I got a job paying fairly good and my Kibubu gets an average pay from the business indeed God has been faithful.

This may 2022 Marks 3 years together with my dearest Kibubu which is contrary to what a friend had given us less than a year. However, we can’t comprehend God’s ways people had given us little time to part ways but look at how Love is amazing between my Kibubu and I it’s as if we wedded yesterday the joy is unspeakable. Those who tell you marriage is good in the first year and then difficult thereafter are basing on their own marriages not your marriage. It’s your marriage why not make a difference like we have.

We have registered a success so far there has been a drastic change we are incomparable with the state of Isaac and Patience who got married in 2019 and this is attributed to God because our marriage stands on the faith.

Besides success, we have had challenges however they haven’t defined our state now. We have had conflicts but those are always our bedroom issues we work them out two of us and our God no third party. Bear in mind that that person you want to tell your bedroom issues has their own issues so be careful the Holy spirit is the best Counselor.

At times we feel it isn’t working out but God is always on our side. If others have made it why not me and Kibubu. We are just content, thankful to God and hoping for the best always.

 To the young (couples) marrieds, I may not have a lot of experience in marriage but three years now, I have heard the best experience.

ü  Many people are ready to give you advice nevertheless no one should dictate in your marriage not your friends not even your parents, pastor or fellowship listen to them but not everything they say works for you. It’s between you, your spouse and your God.

ü  Nothing should get out of your bedroom keep it a secret and lock everything there.

ü  Discuss with your spouse what works for you and vice versa if you can’t build your family with your God then you’re not worth it.

ü  Break every unproductive circles and to all marrieds, please engage in fellowship to learn about experiences of others.

In conclusion, on this 3^rd Anniversary I want to extend our gratitude to all who have stood with with us in good and bad most especially; Our mentors; our families, Rev. Justus B. Murokore, Mr. Izaara Ambrose (Bestman), Tumugabirwe Apophia (Metron), St. Luke’s Chapel MUST, Bwindi Community Hospital Fraternity and everyone who celebrates us each day. May God bless you richly.

To my beautiful Kibubu, “till death do us apart” I love you always and forever. It’s my prayer that God shall enlarge our territory to serve Him as we impact and inspire many too live better married lives and know the marriage value.

Marriage is sweet

To God be the Glory.